Instant Karma: Why I Don’t Feel Bad For Women Who Hit Men and Get Hit Back

There has been a myriad of topics I have come across on social media where never-ending arguments spark that just won't die. Grits: savory or sweet? Trump: Orange Hitler or threat to the status quo? Racism: dead and buried or alive and well? So. many. topics. I, like most people, have opinions on them and … Continue reading Instant Karma: Why I Don’t Feel Bad For Women Who Hit Men and Get Hit Back

I Didn’t Come Here For This: Unpleasant Facebook Interactions and Why They Make Me Dislike People, Part 1

I remember a time when my sister laughed at me because I couldn't have a Facebook account. Couldn't have one, you say? Yes, I could not have a Facebook account. It was impossible. Why? Well, some people may not remember that when Facebook first came about one had to have a valid college email address in … Continue reading I Didn’t Come Here For This: Unpleasant Facebook Interactions and Why They Make Me Dislike People, Part 1

Random, Randomer & Randomerest, Take 2

Sometimes it feels like we all deserve medals for just making it through the day and having to deal with people. Our lives it seems are filled with interactions with people we don't choose to be around.  Your co-workers, for example, are a great example of this. You work with them because your company hired them and … Continue reading Random, Randomer & Randomerest, Take 2

Random, Randomer & Randomerest, Take 1

Thoughts I've had and captured like Gargamel wishes he could Smurfs... Being tall is so weird. Especially as a woman. People find the need to mark your arrival with awkward stares and even more awkward commentary. Random stranger: Hey, you're tall. Me: *blank stare* Random stranger: I always wanted to be tall. Me: *blank stare* … Continue reading Random, Randomer & Randomerest, Take 1

Down The Rabbit Hole: Online Dating, Take 2

Most of my life I've been an extremely patient person; a fact that I attribute to my tendency to think of others before myself. It never seemed out of the ordinary or strange for me to bide my time, sit back and wait, allow others to take the lead, etc. Patience has allowed me to … Continue reading Down The Rabbit Hole: Online Dating, Take 2

Down The Rabbit Hole: Online Dating, Take 1

Ok, confession time. I’ll admit it. I’m a serial monogamist. Since the time I started dating as a teenager I’ve just had relationship after relationship after relationship. I never used to see this as a bad thing and felt it was just normal; something all females were used to. But as I’ve grown and matured … Continue reading Down The Rabbit Hole: Online Dating, Take 1

Stumbling Into This

I wonder if the world is ready…. Fuck the world! Ok, not the WHOLE world. And especially not YOU since you’re reading this. I thank you for giving your time and attention to me for the moment and hope this won’t be the last time you do so. My name is Illadelphia Vish (not my … Continue reading Stumbling Into This